
The Biltmore Estate in Asheville, North Carolina (left) and Sandals Royal Plantation Resort in Ocho Rios, Jamaica (right).
| Choose a private estate if... | Choose a resort if... | |
|---|---|---|
| Vibe | You're looking for total intimacy and privacy. | You're looking for convenience and complete service. |
| Planning | You want the option of bringing in your own caterer and alcohol, which can be a money saver. | You want to use an onsite wedding coordinator and catering manager, often complimentary |
| Details | You like handpicking and personalizing all the wedding-day details, from the chairs to the china. | You like having access to in-house linens, dinnerware and more so you won't have to use as many rentals. |
| Amenities | You want one-of-a-kind lodging (when available) and cozy common areas you'll have to yourselves. | You need an array of guest rooms, activities, restaurant options and lively meeting spots. |
| Venues | You like having unlimited access to unique grounds, usually on a smaller footprint. | You like having a spread-out selection of approved possibilities, such as a beach and a ballroom. |


